Feelings never do make sense. They get you all
confuse. Then they drive you around for hours before they drop you right where
you started - Blair Waldorf
Have you ever had a crush on a guy/girl that's so strong it has overtaken your mind? (of course you do!). You can't stop thinking about him/her 24/7? How many times have you read his/her old texts this week?
It was never okay for you to turn him/her into some sort of Prince Charming (for guys) or Cinderella (for girls) in your mind because it will create unrealistic expectations that everything will be perfect between you and him/her. You must be realistic. Maybe he/she is just a big flirt who has different girlfriend/boyfriend each week. You can ask some simple question like, "What will you and your gf/bf are doing this weekend?". This kind of question will help you to find out whether he is available or not. You don't want to end up in embarrassment, right? You don't have to try too hard to impress him/her. As for me, it was never okay for a girl to say, "I like you." first. I get it. Sometimes, it works. But, still, it's not okay with me. Maybe I'm lame for saying that, but...it's kinda my principle. An I steal this from an article.
Does your crush like you back?
- Makes a lot of eyes contact
- Remember all things you told him/her about yourself
- Compliments about your appearances (hair, shoes or clothes)
- Teases you
- Asks your friends about you
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| This happens a lot of times, right? |
"She has to be fun, have respect for herself and be adventurous."
David Archuleta on his dream girl.
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